When you take your time to look into how some people usually carry themselves, if care is not taken, you will begin to worry at the rate of their self conscious attitudes.
It could be because of money, it could be because of positions in life, it could be perhaps of who or what they know which you as a person is yet or may not even come to know after all.
In fact so many things could make different individuals to start behaving funny, but unknown to them they are rather making things hard for themselves at the long run.
For the overly sensitive and self-conscious but over righteous individuals, they are never aware that they are often the talk of the town most of the times. Unknown to them, those that pretends to be their close friends are nothing but pure information marketers at most!
But due to the deceptive walls that they have built around themselves, they are always highly confident that all is well and that whatever they say or do against anybody is always closed and sealed up because of their positions, after all the money is there. Nothing dey happen!
But funny enough, the very person that is right up there and then with him or her is busy screwing and screening up some vital information to be used for their own backups in case the need arises. If you doubt this then, think of some certain things that were viewed as top secretes but which later made headlines in the newspapers.
There has been cases where whatever crime that was committed were considered as killed and buried but how come those things later comes back to haunt the perpetrators later in their lives?
If we may ask, is there really anything like a secrete? for sure, there is nothing like that but the time that bad things may lie under cover, is just for it to mature just like what was planted are not harvested the same day or anytime soon until it matures. Same thing goes for any secretes that are yet to come out open.
As they say, your reputation inevitably precedes you, and if it inspires respect, a lot of your work is done for you before you arrive on the scene, or utter a single word and see things start taking shape by themselves. But my advise here is for you to create good reputation that would carry through life with nothing to be ashamed of when later exposed to the publics.
I'm putting up this write up for it to serve as enough deterrents to all of us, no matter your race or religion, desist from anything good or bad but which you may not want to be exposed later on in life and which may adversely affect your reputation as a person to your shame and disgrace. When I say 'anything good or bad' I have my reason for using that language.
There are certain deeds which may be considered good but which would appear somewhat shameful when exposed before the public even though it was termed 'GOOD' deed while being performed.
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| Stay away from whatever actions that may keep you in this position |
As a person, no matter your status in life, either rich, poor, or average, do not place unnecessary self-conscious, egoism, or egotism on yourself for that leaves you open for caricatures from all those you come in contact with, even your likely best friends.
Do not be deceived by your status in life into doing some regrettable things that you would later wish you never did.
Be your normal self and stop placing unnecessary self esteem and importance on yourself.
Define your boundaries but make sure that it's not too far removed from what are obtainable from other members of the human family.
Give respects to others and let it be proportionate to what you want to receive in return. Try not to cover anything that may later get exposed to your shame and disgrace; for all those that promised of keeping it sealed with you would not always be in the same mindset that you sealed whatever it with.
Building unnecessary wall around ourselves just to ward off others rarely works to our best interests at all because in their bids to get access to us, many would be inflicting some serious cracks on the walls so to say and that would be damaging to us and also defeat the purposes of building it at first instance.
Instead of working fruitlessly just to get others off our ways, it's far much better to look for some common grounds to get things going without unnecessarily stepping on each other toes. We are naturally meant to live together and as such should explore ways to do just so. Our ego at most gets us into foolishness at the end.
Our educational backgrounds and qualifications may differ, our status in life may also differ, race, color, language, sex, and in fact our personalities differs but in all there is one thing or the other that we have in common the greatest of which is life!.
When we learn to live it to accommodate others irrespective of our differences, we would then be exposed to the full potentials of all that life has for us which will for all times remain mysterious to those who chose to live it secluded and in their own personal version and selfish views.
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