Be Wise And Accept Your Mistakes Instead Of Living A Life Of Self Pity

Swallow  your prides

In any of the following real life situations, there's is but one choice, one side to take if you are to make something good out of the situation and preferably the right choice; one out of the two because there's only but one good choice in anything under contention.

Masters and their servants,
Maids and their mistresses,
Bosses and their staffs in the offices, and other related upper hands and their subordinates as could be seen in various organizations and even in the society in general.

There are usually two sides to every matters and conflicts, and so it goes that whenever any issue arises, there must be an option to take, either in support of or against. You can't be at both sides of an issue even if you are a double faced individual, a hypocrite.

When a conflict arises between a master and his servant, others are usually attracted to the scene and when this happens, there you see people taking sides on the matter and as the misunderstanding deepen, you are bound to start hearing and knowing what you didn't previously know, leading to having your feelings about the matter made known.

While all these might be taking place, the bulk of the issue now lies on the servant who is having issues with his master. Why because different persons would be saying their own opinions, some in critical analysis of the whole issue, others in emotional laden voices filled with enough pity for the servant who have fallen out of favor of his boss, a chaos situation at most per say!.

Both sides here are struggling for attention as you may know any way.

In situations like this, it is critical that the one at the losing ends tries his best not to be swayed and gets carried away with the emotional but pitiful voices of the so called sympathizers which does so little if anything to help the situation to be better. (Joining others to condemn your sources of livelihood when you are still very much dependent on the source, is highly deceptive and could easily leave one with nothing but remaining pitied all his life.)

It is highly recommend that you pay more attention to the voices of those who critically analyze the situation and pinpoint exactly where the real problems lies or comes from as the results of your misdeeds. Why?

Leave the soothsayers and think up your ways

It is because, all the pities expressed for you in any situation, if it lacks some genuine substances and practical but helpful suggestions, may end up leaving you jobless and make your table to be foodless. So be wiser than your so-called advisers at times but especially when you truly know and foresee the pitiable outcome at the long run. 

Whenever you pay the needed attentions to those that critically look into your case, yes, those that usually come out with that black n white statements to your dislike as the case may be, those are the ones that hold the right key to your success because you cannot be friends with the opposing parties and yet maintain a firm stand on any for ultimate gains.

It is your choice and you can always make it.

           Follow the sympathetic groups, those who has nothing meaningful for you and remain the center of attraction or honestly but sincerely put yourself in the shoes of those at loggerheads with you  but who control your livelihood and come out wiser, on the other sides, woe betides you if you make the soothsayers your best friends, you are sure to turn a laughing stock in no time.

 You would definitely prove to yourself and others that you are wiser by accepting your mistakes instead of living a life of pity that leaves you perplexed all through your life.