Unnecessary Frictions Gets Easily Cleared When We Understand Each Other

Constantly either knowingly or not, we have the guns pointed at our innocent fellows as if they are the causes of our sufferings; but how would we feel if we were to be told that we individually, 'constitute 99.9%' of the problems we accuse others of.

Most of the times, we are the ones that generate some ill feelings against ourselves and have it imposed on our fellow humans for no just cause! How I wish that we can accurately read minds and the intentions of others?

  Many good neighbors today are no longer exchanging the usual pleasantries due to misjudged and biased feelings for their innocent selves.

For instance, you greeted someone who probably because of other things weighing up in his mind, did not give you a satisfying reply or didn't even answer you; instead of trying to find out from the fellow of what the matters may be, we are quick to round up some perceived personal opinions and have it thrown at the innocent but the unfortunate fellow and term it his opinions about us which the accused may never even dreamt of.

Aside from our one on one relationships getting soured in that ways, even two countries with some cordial relationship are sometimes torn apart by perceived wrong from one which was never properly investigated due to the already generated heats from different corners.

In reality and to be frank with ourselves, I'm yet to see any sane man or woman who prefer to be unhappy with others for no just cause. I'm also yet to see a country in the world that would want the others to be annihilated simply to prove how strong they are if not for some biased feelings against each other. 
     Take it upon yourself and make some findings of the major causes of most of the conflicts around the world which had gulped an untold number of lives. you would be surprised to see that most them wouldn't have been if the proper buttons in brains had been pressed. 

Even the animals in their perceived debassed natures being what they are called, at times do act in some more sane and coordinated manners more than we the all powerful and wisest humans!. Often times when we look at all that were put in place for the betterment of humans in general, it moves some reasonable ones among us to think and the same time to be confused at them all.

 

Scientist looking for solutions to earth's energy problem in the moon

Scientists around the world regularly put their lives in danger trying to discover several ways and methods to cure various types of ailments most of which are deadly, just like the present king of them all, Ebola and other ones like it. They also work night and day sometimes risking their lives to travel to the space and other less comfortable areas around the world and outside the universe looking for some better ways of doing things just to make things more better. At the same time, though sadly, we the same humans are being trained on how to eliminate our fellow humans just the way we are trained to wipe out those diseases that are making life difficult for the human family.

   Looking at them all, it simply leave one with a kind of vulgar fractions to solve. Any way you go in the world today and even right from time, it has always been blames upon blames. That a particular man or woman is not doing what they are supposed to do and when given the same opportunity to the ones throwing the blames, the same issue still take the opposite directions. Some blame it on religions, some say is lack of education, others on the racial differences, the list are endless because every one of us are right based on our own opinions and that have kept us on this long journey through all these years.

Made for the same humans by humans

Since nobody prefer it this way, what then are we to do to better our relations with one another? though it may look too difficult but in reality, it is very simple.

              Consider the following steps.

To deal with ourselves without much frictions is not any way hard if we realise that we are humans irrespective of where we come from.

To deal with ourselves understandably is one but the strongest thing that would make us to think more like flesh and blood.

To deal with ourselves in terms of our various dispositions is another sure way to nail egotisms which has taken roots in some fellow others.

To deal with ourselves lovingly is to always put others ahead of our preferences, when I do to you and you reciprocates, we would both discover that the best thing we can do in life is the ones we did for our fellow humans.

The list are endless but one good thing about it is that it starts with a single step. Let us face ourselves and try to understand one another and arms and ammunitions for the animals because we are human family and not animal family besides even the animals are to be protected.