All humans have some dreams that they aspire to fulfill in their lifetime. Some of these dreams are too deeply entrenched in some people that they are willing go to any length to have it brought to life before every other things. For some, it comes just the way they had envisioned, to many others however, getting and having their dreams turned into a reality, looks rather like a gorilla war that never ends.
Getting our lifetime dreams fulfilled is what each and every normal humans seriously aspires for in life, in view of this therefore, what then can one do in order not live and die without fulfilling his lifetime dreams? No doubt, every normal person knows that survival is one of the most difficult things in this life but nonetheless every nooks and crannies you set your eyes on are filled with people and by extension some animals that are struggling it out in any way it is just to keep up with the IN n OUT. daily affairs: Breating!
It is difficult not to live just as it is to keep living; the only different being that if one decides to call it quit on life through any means possible, that person would be sure to experience the difficulty once and for all because if a person decides to commit suicide, he or she has to contend with some pains and perhaps wish he never attempted it in the first place, but that are often mere wish because the damage may has been done and the case is irreversible.
Not so with those that chose to live despite all the challenges in life, it is no doubt difficult to live but people are not just comfortable to live for living sake without having their lifetime dreams fulfilled. Yes, we all want to live and have something reasonable to show for it, isn't it?
The inability of some people having their dreams achieved are perhaps the reason why we have many near-mad and some outright mad fellows scattered around us. If you don't know it before now, permit me to tell you that great majorities of mad people around us are there because of frustrations and hopeless conditions that may have led them to some actions that eventually triggered the wrong code in their brains. ............
In as much as we do not want to have discouragements show for our difficulties in trying to discover our dreams in life, even though we are experiencing serious hindrances trying to reach our various goals in life, what then are we to do while holding strongly to our dreams without unnecessarily hurting ourselves and perhaps dumping our dreams along the way and make up with mediocrities as results of the indifference we had encountered or may likely to come up with in our bid to getting what we want in life and to live a satisfactory lives?
Some tips to help us analyze things rightly and to be in the right frame of mind while pursuing our goals in life has been carefully arranged in this article to enable us determine some of the right courses to take and how to stay motivated even when all avenues of keeping tight to our dreams seemed exhausted.
In order not to make it look complicated, cumbersome, or unnecessarily long to read and comprehend, I ve' taken my time to have it sifted off some detailed explanations to just what are needed to get us in the right frame of mind and what we need to know for the very purpose of what attracted us to it in the first place.
Just as I had said, here we have four simple steps which would help us to stay motivated and remain persistent in our determination to live beyond the so called average life of the tired ones.
These tips calls for no greater efforts than what we could humanly afford. It neither requires no extraordinary intelligence, no particular amount of education or any other extra-ordinary gifts to have it achieved. It doesn't cost me any more effort to have it listed at the very beginning of this article than here, but the fact remains that some reasonable amount of efforts and persistence are always needed if truly we want to get whatever it is in life that is worthwhile, so having come to this extent, I entertain no doubt that you are not here for a joke and I sincerely commend you for that.
Here are the four simple tips that would enable us to develop persistence and reach our goals:
1. A definite plan expressed in continuous actions without deviating:
If you want want to learn how to be a driver, going out to busy roads, standing at the bus stops, or staying in a motor packs observing buses, and cars coming in and going with passengers and drivers, are all good ideas but none of these could be more helpful than being in a moving moving vehicle with a driver/coach who knows your predicament.
2. A definite purpose backed by a burning desire for it's fulfillment:
Before a woman gives birth to a child, people no doubt must have known that she was pregnant except for some rare cases. A person's reactions to what interests him should not and must never be left for the others who have different tastes and goals to advertise so to say. You ve' tasted it and you are in the best position to tell others what it tastes like and that leaves you with the responsibilities of getting it to them and demonstrating same in order to woo them into enjoying it with you for whatever royalties you deem fit. Justify the reason of your madness for the people.
3. A mind tightly closed against all negative and discouraging influences:
People are sure to come en mass to tell you that there are some better ways of doing it, especially in this category are relatives and friends, some of whom may come with untold number of many options all which are untested while asking you to implement it and see the results at your own risk probably. If you are not sure of what you are doing, be ready to be talked out of it and blame yourself when someone else picks up the idea and then refine it to your admiration.
4. Create a friendly alliance with one or more minds who will encourage you to follow things through with both plans and purpose:
Whether things are bad or good, people are usually involved. However, if you really take your time to search out some like minds, those who somewhat shares your aspirations, you are sure to remain highly motivated because they would be there for you even when things fail to turn out as expected. You are both to brainstorm various ideas before implementation and that would definitely leave you with lesser trial and error methods in life.
As you take your time to work on this tested principles, you would be sure to come across or hit some rocks while working on the strategies here, but they are never meant to discourage you but are rather for keeping you stronger knowing that you are working on something difference perhaps so different from most of the things you had previously tried or somethings you have done before, but now approaching it again with some more better strategies for a better result.
See you at the top because of persisted efforts in the right directions.
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