Pursue your life goals and never get sidetracked by some immediate gratifications

In life there are things that come up naturally even before the one involved knows that he is doing it. Granted there are so many natural things that we all do as humans, not that we just want to but that we must do. For instance, eating and drinking are natural and letting it out as a waste as well.
But what is meant here is quite different.

When we were growing up as kids, we all had many dreams as to what we would like to be in the future but as the years pass by, most of those early life aspirations starts giving ways to some better, realistic and matured goals that has taken us to where we are today, irrespective of what we had wanted or aspired to be.
         Some are truly happy and satisfied with the life there are living today whereas others are not. My attention will be focused on the later groups.

Commendably, we are all doing wonderfully well in whatever ethical endeavors we are pursuing, despite the fact that some of us are just doing that for the sake of survival and not that they really want it that way.

 If you are ever trapped in this slavery method, you are rarely productive and will never become happy, because your inner voice will be constantly keep on reminding you that you don’t belong to that place and no matter how hard you may try to suppress it by putting more effort in your condition induced work, it can never fall into place because you cannot force yourself for too long on something that goes against your passions as a person.


Even if you tries to raise your voice against that  inborn desires that you had spent enough time and resources building over some time, chances are there that it may take you longer than necessary to come off it except if it is something unethically wrong in itself.


   But if in spite of these clear evidences, you are still finding it hard to listen to your inner self because you are still getting along somehow well in your present enslavement basically because of the fears of the unknown zone, then think of it in this way: 'for the very fact that your best cannot be truly manifested there, which you knows more than any other person, I implore you to consider this: WHEN IT'S OBVIOUS THAT THE GOALS CANNOT BE REACHED, DON'T ADJUST THE GOALS, ADJUST THE STEPS, for you would certainly get there and have your marks indelibly made.



Do not allow the unfounded fears of the unknown to hinder you in life. Whatever a person is doing merely for survival of which he doesn't enjoy/finds satisfaction in doing, it doesn't worth doing! It simply means dying constantly before one's actual death. 

If you know that which you have always wanted to do as a person and rightly could, why trade that for some immediate gratifications that leaves you as a beggar at most?


Note again that most things in this life are based on assumptions and due to some unfounded fears most of these assumptive reasoning are beginning or has found its way into some people' head thereby holding them back from doing that which they could do exceptionally well with much joys and satisfactions.

 Education on its own which greater number of people hung their ingenuity, does not do for any person what the fellow fails to do for himself. Education does not make one a  professional, but what makes one a professional, is that which a person develops in himself with the knowledge acquired in school or wherever. Those are the skills that carries the individual to any place of his dreams.


 Talking, they say does not fill the basket in farm. Success requires planning and hard work on the right directions. So try hard to make needed researches on the areas/endeavors of your passions instead of competing with the wrong crowds.

Learn while it is still very early to identify fake clients and how not to waste your precious time with them.

 Compete rightly and don’t allow some deceptive alibis to keep your doors of opportunities permanently shut while you go through life merely hoping and wishing for some funny breakthroughs that keeps one ever singing and dancing to the same old tunes!


Move on and persistently towards your long time dreams of life and have good stories to tell many others that are still coming behind you of the numerous benefits of following through instead of living a mediocre's life.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Simple but straight talks. thanks a million