Wickedness And Laziness - How Are They To Be Understood?

How lazy is this wild cat?/lifehacker.com.au

Being wicked and being lazy are two different words that has spanned different definitions over time and has kept people at each others throats with various accusations on how and why we do things the way we do as individuals.

Apply Wisdom While Helping Others In Need And Safe Yourself Unnecessary Entanglements

How To Save Ourselves From The Dangers Of Fellow Humans should have been the topic of this post but for the sake of soft landing, let's have it the way it is.

Why not save yourself the agonies of dying unnecessarily for someone else or others losing their life cheaply for your sake; simply by minding your own business and staying away from issues that doesn't concern you?

Take Responsibilty For Yourself And Stop Accusing Others Unecessarily

Many people today find it very easy to exonerate themselves from various blames and have them thrown to others for not letting them to be what they want to be in life.  From many angles often come this sober cries of not being allowed to fly and do all the imaginable things that one is created for and live his best of life.

If not that he did this or do that to me, I would have been up there and forgotten all these present conditions....., Or if not that I accept or refused that job, the stories would have been a different thing all together....and I would have been best or worst of ..., If not this marriage to this...... Hmm!!!

The Origin Of May Day Celebrations And The Stories So Far Around The World

May Day 2016/buffon.edu

For many people in different parts of the world today, very little is known about May Day, its origin and what it stands for. Ask the new generations of our young people today and they will tell you that it's just a day set aside for the workers to rest from their hectic 8-5, 24/7 and year round office works they do.

How To Get A Divorce In Nigeria - What You Should Know

Filling a petition a divorce/happenings.com.ng

How to get a divorce in Nigeria. What did the topic say? You heard it CLEARLY and the reasons are not far-fetched because in as much as there are many happy couples out there, greater numbers of married couples are busy fighting tooth and nail doing all they can to get out of their marriage legally and move on with their life separately instead of enduring abusive risky cohabitants.

How Not To Let Your Strengths Become Your Weaknesses

Strength of weakness/youtube.com

 Looking at this from the general points of view, it's rarely what it sounds like or seems to be because we all have our different outlooks on things and on what we believes to be too much or traditionally acceptable in our cultures and personal preferences.

All Great Things In Life Started Small And Grew Into Something Big - Bad Ones Inclusive

Little beginnings/GreenLine

Big things they say, starts small and that is how we go with things in life believing it to be true simply because it's true.
 Another saying like it and which was coined as a result of it, is 'Catch them young' because we all know the value of grooming the young ones with the big tasks of life ahead in mind. We are so sure that they are going to grow to something bigger and better.

How To Maintain Clear Focus In The Midst Of Many Distractions

Focus at work/miamiherald.com

How often do we see things done differently in life by different persons? At times it could be how an individual speaks, how he chews loudly while eating, how he walks, and other things that he does which to every other persons may be so awful that we can't imagine ourselves spending time together with such a person for long.

What Disappointment Can Cause To A Person And How To Counteract It

It knows no age limits/mnsales.com

 Unfulfilled expectations. A situation in which a strongly held expectation is not met. Irrespective of where we come from or what we intend to do or are even doing in life, the truth of the matter is that no one enjoy disappointments of any sort no matter how blessings filled it's usually claimed and said to be.

What We Should Know About Social Networking Platforms

Familiar trends/everypost.me

 What we should know about social networking platforms. Much has been said and heard about the various social networking platforms on the internet and the attitudes of people around it.The rate of involvement in social media platforms cuts across all ages, from young kids to the adults even to the corporate firms around the world.

Why We Should Be Prudent With Our Spending And Avoid Impulse Buying

Impulse buying/sofeminine.com

 Being prudent with our spending. Before you proceeds with the reading of this post, I would want you to do me this little favor. Take few minutes and look at this blog side by side, then scroll down while keeping your eyes on the colored highlighted links in the main paragraphs as you move your cursor through the page. Please don't click READ more until you are done with the exercise. Thank you!

Successful Nigerians On The Internet And What We Can Learn From Them

Serious Nigerians online!

               Before now, I used to think that we have just a handful of writers, analysts, journalists, composers, novelists, preachers both real and fakes, teachers, and in fact, all the professions you could think of.
But how wrong I was! The advent of technology with its numerous devices has proved me wrong.
Go to various social network platforms today and see what is happening.

Life As A Critic, Does It Really Worth Living?

'A critic is a man created to praise greater men than himself but he is never able to find them- Richard Le Gallienne'.

Reading further from the same book, it says ,'it's a thousand times easier to criticize than to create and that is the major reason why critics are never problem solvers.

How To Get People To Eat Their Bad Words Against You

Sweet gossip.

Do YOU Want To Have Eyes & Ears At The Back? Making people to wonder how you were both able to see or hear what was deliberately kept hid for you not to see or hear?

Do you want people to be cursing you and at the same time be the one to carry it with their own heads, what about being referred to as a wicked person and at the same time be called a God sent?

Unnecessary Frictions Gets Easily Cleared When We Understand Each Other

Constantly either knowingly or not, we have the guns pointed at our innocent fellows as if they are the causes of our sufferings; but how would we feel if we were to be told that we individually, 'constitute 99.9%' of the problems we accuse others of.

Most of the times, we are the ones that generate some ill feelings against ourselves and have it imposed on our fellow humans for no just cause! How I wish that we can accurately read minds and the intentions of others?

Freeness of speech, how to stay within the necessary limits

Freedom of expression and the ability to speak goes hand in hand but defining the two sometimes appears to be somehow difficult if not properly managed. It is indeed a clear fact that no parent will be happy to see their beloved child (ren) suffer any form of speech impediment, but it does happen due to one type of sickness or the other thus making the affected to endure it rather than to enjoy the unfortunate life experience.

How To Be Contented With The Little We Have And Shun Greediness In All Its Forms

It remains a fact that you could possibly dig further despite the the present debt you have gotten so far.

But must you continue to dig further since your desired clean/pure water has been reached? If you continue to dig just to prove and show that you can always go further which may not be necessary, be careful lest you waste all your resources trying to fill the unneeded deep back to how it should have been. We can always go further, but what if the extents to which we have gone still stretches endlessly far into the unknown distances?, Well, that's an indication that greediness has placed a mirage stand for us to aspire for.

  If we allow greediness to stand before us and reality, we might be aiming for nothing at the tail end of the pursuits after all. Yes, times without number, we have been hearing it from those that are fortunate to be coming back alive from the far distance and the mirage journeys, that there are nothing there to strive for with all your efforts or life. Why? They has been there and the journey stretches endlessly far into the future.
As long as we continue to search for that which is not presently obtainable despite having more than enough to get by with, that which we might have been disregarding would continuously remain and appear like decoys to us until we look behind and see the extents to which we had called nothing, that which could have been all that we needed.

Having this check helps us a lot

It should be a course of wisdom for us while we are going to where it is said to be in some larger quantities, not to ignore the little we could (possibly) but sporadically be picking along the way, for these ones are more certain, highly assured than the bigger quantum which you are aspiring for at the expense of those at the tip of your finger. Let us stop wasting our energies unnecessarily but be wise enough to look at the opportunities within us. Let us learn to make do continually with little ones we are picking along the way, perhaps we may not have to go so much far in search of our needs after all. So it makes a whole lot of senses to remain sensible and say no to striving after the winds. Inasmuch as we are making the needed efforts, let's be rest assured that what we have would definitely serve our needs.
    In what ever situations we see ourselves in life, we have to learn how to be contented with the little or much that we have have and shun greediness in all its forms.

If Given The Opportunity, Would You Have Done Better?

Wiki

How would you have handled the Adamic test if you were given the opportunity? many will respond like this;  “I would have done or make an excellent choice that is totally difference from what we have today and proved the Devil a liar that he is, how I wish I was Adam. I wouldn’t have made such a useless and deadly choice.” 
 But since the damage has been done with many woes that have befallen humanity as the result, there is little we can do about it.

 Because of that act of disobedient, all has inherently become imperfect resulting in numerous woes that has befallen us.

 All in the name of imperfections, things has gone extremely bad and great many of us use that as an excuse to perpetrate evils, after all who cares! 

Simply put, people no longer care whose ox is gored any longer. The glare warning on the faces of people is, "Grow or Die" and "If you are not moving, because of your broken legs or whatever, leave the way"!!!!

 That is just the interpretation of people’s attitudes in the world today.
  

  But in all, one thing is certain, be you a perpetrator of evil or an innocent person, no one is happy over the sad situation we found ourselves in. I'm not happy, what about you?.

 Stretching it further, we all at one time or the other, might have done some regrettable things with sad consequences, either known to others or not, whether big or small, the truth remains that we wished we never did that, but regrets, just as the name sounds, does little to undo the damages we might have caused.

     But now let us take it just plain without being or sounding sanctimoniously innocent. It is an established fact that we are not happy over the situations in the world today irrespective of whoever we are or may claim to be, many things make us sad in the world today. Be that as it were, therefore, what can we do about it as humans?

   That takes us to the very question I started with; if you are given the opportunity, would you have taken the cause that Adam took? 

To that, we agreeably say NO! But in the real sense of it, are we really saying that, with our whole hearts?  For our answers to be really effective, it has to go beyond mere words of mouth but be supported with actions to be effectively implemented.

 Granted things are bad, difficult and anyhow we may think of it, but it is not to an excessive degrees because no matter how tense the situation is or may be, there are always some tangible reasons why we have to thank God.

 Honestly, we need to ask ourselves some soul searching questions, like:
 If I'm presented with good and bad, which will I go for, and which ever I chooses, did I do that out of ignorance or with right kind of knowledge?

 If you are given an opportunity to perform an act of kindness or to commit any act of badness with impunity, which one do you go for? You know the right choice!

 So it goes without much ado’s today that we have various chances no matter how trivial it may be to be in Adam’s shoes and prove ourselves accordingly.

 Let us stop overloading Satan with powers and all the blames in the world. Let us be man enough to accept the responsibilities of our actions, for it is not beyond our reach to do good for our fellow humans and be happy for doing so while we leave the rests for God as it were instead of shifting blames.

Regrettable options

     In  concluding notes,

 look at it this way; people find it easy to do bad all in the name that their 1^st parents sold them into sin, but they had equally forgotten that a counter even a superior provisions, has been made by God to counteract that. We have greater reasons to do good instead of falling prey to so many weaker options in life.

It certainly cost less to do things right.

Why stay away from actions capable of causing untold hardship to people

In the cause of our day to day activities we often come across certain actions responsible for the so many woes that have befallen mankind.

  It pains me to see many acclaimed learned individuals, when I say learned; ( I mean those that ought to know to some reasonable degree and not necessarily degree holders)  taking some deliberate but dangerous actions all in the name of (that’s the way we do it here)sm!

  Have you had this kind of rebuffs from anyone as you tried to correct their wrong way of doing things? what I mean is this; have you experienced a cold feet by telling someone not refuel an engine while it is running; telling an experienced driver to drive safely; telling a friend to handle things more calmly in his house hold; warns some one of his or her drinking/smoking habits?

      

 The issues above, became a concern to me when I got attracted to a scene that could be best described as purely man-induced disaster, where a building was raised down by fire which started as a result of refueling a generator while it is on by an owner of a cyber-cafe.

    When asked why he did that, he starts pointing accusing finger to one of his neighbor for causing it by means of her uncanny powers.   Wait a bit you may say; yes, the irresponsible fellow actually accused this particular neighbor because she had warned him severally of doing that—and had equally pointed out to him that: “he may set the house ablaze one day!” what about that?

        If you had witnessed or experienced some minor or by extensions fatal accidents, let truth be told, that some 98% were not without previous signs or outright warnings that was not acted upon or that were simply disregarded!

  Have you heard these rather but sad recaptures: “I or we told him/they that the sound of the engine was not good enough but were told that it has been like that and reassuringly enough that there is no problem whatsoever!” 

   Yes the above statements are no doubt what are common aftermath of some ill fated Ship, Airplanes, and Vehicles, taking with them many precious human lives just like that.   Will it not be better to be proactive on our various duties and be humble enough to accept corrections and thereby minimize much had I knows that will torment one for the rest of his life if the person survives it at all?

       Let us accept and treasure corrections, because that is the secret of life.  For when we chose to act only on our own impulses, we become opinionated and when that happens, we become stiff lacking flexibility meaning that any place we are headed to, be it towards destruction or whatever it may involves, no stopping no maneuvering, simply zombie in action. But you know too well that the roads to life have some necessary amendments requiring lots of flexibilities if one is to minimize the scratches from the walls as it were.

 Let’s not remain (Mr. know it all)  and keep things moving from bad to worse but rather, be man or woman enough  to be yielding to the needed corrections for that will make a whole lot of positive difference in your life and that of untold many others. be lauded for doing things accordingly and not the other ways round.

          Do not add to the woes, act accordingly to alleviate it and put a stop to the necessary areas we can humanly.

                 Thanks for your time!

                               

           

           

    

   

The Art Of Putting Our Tongues In Check Is Life Saving

At times we feel like saying or shouting it out loud just because we can and not necessarily because we have to.