Are You Giving Your Teenagers Enough Space To Explore The World Around Them?

A teenage girl boyfriend visiting at the wrong time/verywell.com

We can't hide it any longer than view it as what we all did as teenagers. Though we may not come out completely open with all the details, at least for some reasons best known to us individually.

Preparing Our Kids To Face The Real World Out There

A mother and her two lovely daughters/bostonmagazine.com

 Even though ours for our life time and beyond, our children are not going to spend all their lives with us. They ve' got to leave home and start their own life no matter how closely attached we ve' grown to love them as our children. This is hard but there's nothing much we can do about it except if we want to hinder their progress in life.

To What Extent Would You Allow Being A Parent To Rule Your Life?

Concerns for the kids / nytimes.com

To what extent you allow being a parent to control your life goes a long way in making you what you eventually become and how you are likely to end your life.

For sure you weren't born married with kids just as you are now...there was a time when you had none of them around you; like husband, wife or the the children, all you had then is your life, and your life didn't come to an end because of not having all the people you have now around you. It all depends to what extent you would allow being a parent to take over your life.

Can Parents Truly Be The Best Friends Of Their Children?

Mother and her daughter posing as the best of friends / wrapy.net

As parents, we can be everything to our children but certainly not their best friends as some are often said to be, either to one or all of their children.
 This is one area that real truth has to be told instead of paying some lip-services to it.

Schooling And Education Weighed In The Balance

Books for consumption/crosswalk.com

Before proceeding with this write up, it's necessary that we get the real meanings of the two case points under discussion here clearly spelt out.  Schooling and Education.

Schooling is described as training or instructing and sometimes educating, while education goes with the process or art of imparting knowledge, skill and judgement. Further to education also comes with learning either formally or informally

Take Responsibilty For Yourself And Stop Accusing Others Unecessarily

Many people today find it very easy to exonerate themselves from various blames and have them thrown to others for not letting them to be what they want to be in life.  From many angles often come this sober cries of not being allowed to fly and do all the imaginable things that one is created for and live his best of life.

If not that he did this or do that to me, I would have been up there and forgotten all these present conditions....., Or if not that I accept or refused that job, the stories would have been a different thing all together....and I would have been best or worst of ..., If not this marriage to this...... Hmm!!!

How To Get A Divorce In Nigeria - What You Should Know

Filling a petition a divorce/happenings.com.ng

How to get a divorce in Nigeria. What did the topic say? You heard it CLEARLY and the reasons are not far-fetched because in as much as there are many happy couples out there, greater numbers of married couples are busy fighting tooth and nail doing all they can to get out of their marriage legally and move on with their life separately instead of enduring abusive risky cohabitants.

Reasons Why Money Shouldn't Be Blamed For All Our Sufferings

Man versus money/themainewire.com

Why can't people put the blames where it belonged instead of putting it all on money?. If it's this, is money; if it's that, it's money. money! money!! and money!!! and yet money never talks.

If it's really to be, what has gone wrong with money, where has it not lived up to expectations and what sin has money committed to deserve all these blames and much more?
 If things are moving well for a person, money will be involved, if it's going the other way round, money would be mentioned also.

Some families or individuals are well intact today and are living their dreams while many others are in disarrays and are afflicted with all forms of challenges  due to some likely negligence on their parts. Even as that, money still takes all the blames.

How To Maintain Clear Focus In The Midst Of Many Distractions

Focus at work/miamiherald.com

How often do we see things done differently in life by different persons? At times it could be how an individual speaks, how he chews loudly while eating, how he walks, and other things that he does which to every other persons may be so awful that we can't imagine ourselves spending time together with such a person for long.

Fairly Used Clothes And What We Should Know About Them

Okirika dealer in a Nigerian market/naijadeevas.com

 Fairly used clothes. If it's to be, about 98% of the populace are guilty of patronizing second-hand clothes popularly known as Okirika. It is not a secrete business as the dealers are mostly seen with their wares displayed at conspicuous places at the markets where it enjoy wider patronages by virtually all classes of people, the rich, middle class, and the poor citizens.

How To Affect Others Positively With What We Have And The Rewards That Follows It

Happiness at its zenith/acceleratednursing.utica.edu

We retain whatever we have by using them to help others. Use whatever you are blessed with today to locate others and help them stand up in life. Do not make the mistake of keeping it all to yourself while believing that you re' protecting it.No! You loose whatever you have by keeping it to yourself alone.

Leave Nothing For Tomorrow Which Can Be Done Today

Now, Tomorrow, and Yesterday. which do you choose?

 Leave nothing for tomorrow which can be done today. What about tomorrow? To so many people that usually sound indefinite and a solution on its own to whatever problems that they have; thinking that the next day, week, month,or year would appear with some ready made answers to their questions in life.

What We Should Know About Social Networking Platforms

Familiar trends/everypost.me

 What we should know about social networking platforms. Much has been said and heard about the various social networking platforms on the internet and the attitudes of people around it.The rate of involvement in social media platforms cuts across all ages, from young kids to the adults even to the corporate firms around the world.

Five reasons you should think twice about using brokers

 Hundreds of thousands of securities brokers provide essential services for investors. These services allow us to buy and sell stocks, bonds, mutual funds, ETFs and other types of financial instruments.
For two years in the 1960s I was a stock broker myself. Part of my job was to help investors with such trades.

Be Wise And Try TO know And Understand What Works For You As An Individual

The key that unlocks your real potentials

Things may be hard, situations could even descend from bad to worst, your hopes may be dashed, those you once looked up to may wear some strange looks, you may even become a different person to your very self, all that depended on you would be filled with questions about the whole things taking place and unknown to you, especially if you haven't got some time to analyze the situations critically,

Life As A Critic, Does It Really Worth Living?

'A critic is a man created to praise greater men than himself but he is never able to find them- Richard Le Gallienne'.

Reading further from the same book, it says ,'it's a thousand times easier to criticize than to create and that is the major reason why critics are never problem solvers.

The Benefits Of Having Clear Focus In Life

Irrespective of the years of life, the value of true focus cannot be overly emphasized!

Maintaining the needed clear focuses in life is a trick that very few people have. 

Great majority of humans are struggling with many things in life all in the name of breaking through and living a comfortable life of their own.

Having a clear focus in life is usually easier said than done because there are so

Be Determined To Succeed And Bring Your Dreams To Life

In our determination to succeed in life, many things are usually said and perceived to be wrong with us at that very particular period in our life. And for sure, it has to be so unless you don't want to progress beyond your present stages in life, besides it is an inborn in every human even the animals to either experience or make others feel somewhat sick in their bids to progress in life.......

Reasons Why We Have To Be Serious With Our Works

Working gets you lifted in life!

Have you ever felt like giving up on that which you do? Could the following questions perhaps be your reasons for giving up?
As in form of question: Is it that what you/we are working on is not working out or that we are not doing it right?
 Could it be that we are overlooking some certain aspects of the work that are more important and instead concentrate on doing things our own ways?
 How is my/our work ethics?

Even Life's Difficulties Do Present Us With Choices To Make

Is there even a time when a person could be said to be without any choice to make in life? What in the first place if at all possible could lead to that?  Certainly, so many things could possibly cause that but much depends on the individual's permission.
 I will expand more on this much later.
And so it goes that many things in life today could turn a person upside down leaving him with less choices to make if he has any.